These are the posts from the July 2026 Midway Menagerie, a monthly furry blogging carnival. This month's theme was "Fandom and Community".
Loaf wrote "furry community", where he talks about his introduction to furry, what joining the fandom has meant to him, his relationship with online vs in-person community, and what it means to adopt the label.
In my first year of being a furry, my life completely transformed. I left a depressive haze and suddenly was on a nonstop emotional rollercoaster of extremely heightened experiences. Life was bright and overwhelming. I was alive, as myself, properly, for maybe the first time in my life. I had no idea what I was doing; the rules by which I lived my life no longer applied. Anything was possible.
As someone who is also fairly new to furry, it was interesting comparing our experiences. Like Loaf, online community has never really clicked for me; my social groups are all people I know IRL. Unlike Loaf, I spent most of my first con hiding in the quiet room.
Riven wrote "Fandom and Community", where they reflect on how the intersection of the furry fandom and IRL meetups allowed them to engage in fandom in a way they had never been able to before.
It was only when I found out that these gay little animals in my computer actually meet up in real life and hang out that I realized what a joy it was to be part of the community. Being able to talk face to face made everything so much easier - these were no longer nebulous titans, but actual
peopleanimals with their own personality and quirks.
I think Riven neatly summarizes one of the main hangups I have engaging with online community: "feeling like part of the conversation". Online interactions aren't bookended the way in-person interactions are; there's no way to jump in without feeling like I'm crashing a party.
Rouka wrote "Individualism in Fandoms", where she discusses her journey stepping into various communities--everything from furry to kink to gacha--and the roadblocks she faced along the way. She describes the way special education isolates neurodivergent kids, the challenge of expressing your authentic self while living with conservative parents, and the difficulty of breaking into longstanding friend groups. She closes with a message of hope for herself.
Don’t forget to remind yourself why you are in the community you are in to begin with, and don’t forget who you are and ultimately have a clear idea of who you want to be, both yourself and the people you want to be around.
I definitely relate to how impossible breaking into longstanding friend groups can feel, as well as the perils of navigating unspoken social rules. Rouka makes a good point in that it takes a stable foundation--a good home life and people who accept you for who you are--to have a chance of being social and stepping out into community. For different reasons--mostly health-related in my case--I didn't have that stable foundation when I was younger, and that similarly hampered my ability to make friends and find community.
Enii wrote "Midway Menagerie: July 2026", where she recounts her introduction to furry, from childhood to the present day. She talks about early experiences encountering furries online, early-web furry communities, platforms that have come and gone, her first conventions, and the friends she made along the way.
It was the summer of 2012 when I first learned about furries. I was on summer vacation before entering 8th grade and bouncing around YouTube one afternoon. I don't remember what led me to it, but eventually I stumbled across a few videos of the dance competition at Anthrocon 2012. I was amazed at the dancers' skill and especially at the fact that they pulled it off in full costume!
While the timeline differed--I didn't develop an interest in furry until a few years ago--running across videos of fursuiters having fun at a convention was the spark for me as well. I was also personally touched to hear that Anville has become so important to her, as it has to me.
Ån submitted "Fandom and Community", an essay in the form of an interactive text-based RPG. This poignant autobiographical piece is a non-chronological account of their entrance into the furry community, from the fandom's earliest days to our local furry scene.
Now, in the early 21st century, "community," like "friend," becomes a treacherous word. It gets stretched to cover fandoms, support networks, weak ties, strong ties, products and sales pitches. It's nearly meaningless, and also, in ways I've never said out loud, something I don't think I could exist without.
Aside from being absolutely stunned by the effort that clearly went into this piece, I appreciated the vulnerable perspective into the life and history of a friend I consider a pillar of our local community. It's a reminder that we've all been small, scared, and unsure of our place in the world.
Goose wrote "Furries turned Family: Fandom of Being a Good Community Member", in which they distinguish between fandom as an interest group and fandom as a community. They never saw the interest in fandom until they accidentally dropped into the furry community and came to understand the ways in which furries uplift and support one another as family. They compare their experiences in the furry community with the kinds of community support families relied on to survive when they were growing up, and express gratitude for the furry family they've surrounded themself with.
And yea, maybe I found a good group, full of really cool people, who bring out the “italian grandmother” in me. Maybe I’ve found the most helpful and kind group of human beings in my city. But I’m damn grateful for them. They’re the difference between friends and community, fandom and family, and they welcome people with open arms. You just have to brave enough to ask to be apart of it all.
I grew up under a fairly traditional nuclear family structure, and I never had to wonder if my basic needs would be met. As a consequence of this privilege, I never really saw what this kind of community support looks like until I went out into the world on my own. I have friends who are going through it, and seeing how their communities turn out for them has been a beautiful thing.
anchovie wrote "on fandom and community", in which shi tries to pin down a definition of furry and hir relationship with the label. Shi talks about furry as a "gateway" to other communities, and why shi has historically been reluctant to identify as a furry.
so what is furry to me? is it some sort of weirdly-arranged fruit basket of hobbies i only participate in with other animal-people on the Internet? am i really a furry if my engagements with other furries are entirely dictated by mutual interest in non-furry things?
To this day, have a difficult time identifying as a furry without qualification. As I talk about in my piece, the interest in anthropomorphic characters that "traditionally" defines the community doesn't feel like it leaves a lot of space for me and my place in furry. Like anchovie's "gateway" analogy, I feel like it's mostly the connection that have come out of it which define what being a furry means to me.
I wrote "It's not really about the animals", where I describe how my relationship with the furry community is more centered on the community aspect than the furry part. I talk about the challenges I face integrating into new social contexts, and how rewarding it's been to come out on the other side of it.
My evolution from that timidity to organizing events of my own has been really good for me--a measure of self-confidence and proof that I can step into new social contexts and find success, even when it's hard.
Thank you to everyone who participated for the first month of this new carnival! It brings me joy to see folks engaging with this silly little project of mine, and I'm excited to see what folks write next month.
I encourage you to leave comments below with your thoughts on any of this month's submissions, or just the carnival as a whole. Also let me know if you would like to volunteer to host the carnival in September!
The theme for next month (August 2026) is "Where is furry?", hosted by Ån.
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